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Send me the guideBy Daniela Hess, MSEd12 min readOctober 2026
Inflammation is your immune system's repair response, and the trouble is the kind that never switches off. Here is where it hides, where it comes from, the damage it does, and a plan to cool it.
When I teach this live, I start with inflammation, because so much of what happens downstream runs through it.
Inflammation is your immune system's repair response, and in the short term you need it. You cut your finger, and the area turns red, warm, and swollen. That is your immune cells rushing in to fight infection and begin the repair. Then the response is supposed to switch off.
The trouble is inflammation that never switches off. Researchers call it chronic, low-grade, or systemic inflammation. It runs quietly through your whole body for years, without the throb of a banged-up knee, and it sits underneath many of the illnesses we fear most.
Your immune system runs 2 arms that are meant to take turns.
The first arm raises the alarm: it calls in immune cells, raises the heat, and fights the threat. The second arm resolves: it calls off the alarm, clears the debris, and returns your tissue to quiet readiness.
In a healthy body, these 2 arms cycle like an in-breath and an out-breath. Chronic inflammation is the in-breath that never gets its out-breath.
Resolution is an active process. Your body builds specialized calming molecules, some of them made directly from the omega-3 fats in fish, to switch the response off. When the threat keeps arriving, or when the resolving arm is too depleted to do its work, the alarm keeps ringing.
Running an inflammatory response is also metabolically expensive. Your immune system has to pull that energy from the reserves you would otherwise use to think clearly, repair tissue, balance your hormones, and digest your food. This is part of why chronic inflammation can leave you so depleted, and why energy often returns as the fire calms.
If you have wondered why you cannot keep up, you may be doing plenty. A large share of your energy may be going, quietly and constantly, to a fire that has not yet gone out.
Women often hear the word inflammation and think, my digestion is fine, so this must not be me. That is how inflammation hides in plain sight. It can look like:
Most of the symptoms on the first pages of this guide can be traced back, at least in part, to inflammation, alongside the other roots this guide walks through.
It can also look like:
Seen together, these lists show 1 fire showing up in many rooms of the house.
A puffy face is 1 of the signs Women in the Hashimoto 411 group ask about most. 1 of the educators who host the group reads it as inflammation, and her answer to 'which supplement will fix it?' is a question: what are you doing to manage your Hashimoto's and lower your inflammation? You cannot supplement your way out of inflammation.
My own inflammation showed up in 3 rooms at once: my digestion, my fatigue, and my joints. Until I started AIP, healed my gut, and began LDN, all my joints ached. Walking felt achy, hard, and tiring.
Today I have no pain at all, and I am not limited physically in any way. I am still a little sensitive to cold, nothing like before.
Inside your cells, many of these alarm signals meet at a master switch called NF-kB, which turns on the genes for inflammatory messengers.
Refined carbohydrates, foods your body reacts to, short sleep, chronic stress, and toxins all tend to flip it on. Whole foods, enough sleep, movement, and a calmer Nervous System help quiet it. The choices you make each day decide, in a direct biochemical sense, how often that switch gets thrown.
Picture an ordinary Tuesday. A Woman wakes after 5 and a half hours of broken sleep and reads work email before she is out of bed.
She skips breakfast and drinks a sweetened latte in the car. At 10, a granola bar at her desk.
At 3 PM, the crash, and a handful of chocolate to get through it.
Dinner is pasta and a glass of wine, and on a hard day, a second glass. Her phone is the last thing she sees before sleep.
Nothing in that day feels dramatic. To her immune system, it is a day full of small alarms: blood sugar spikes, stress surges, gluten reaching a gut that may already be open, alcohol loosening the seams of her gut lining, and too little sleep to reset any of it. Tomorrow brings the same ones.
If any part of that Tuesday looks like yours, you have also found your first places to begin.
These are the sources I see most often in Midlife Women. Many Women have several at once, which is why removing just 1 rarely clears it.
Dr. Datis Kharrazian, 1 of my teachers, offers a sequencing principle that changed how I work. Anti-inflammatory food, habits, and supplements bring limited benefit while a major source of inflammation is still active.
Think of pouring cool water on a fire while someone keeps pouring gasoline on the other side. The water helps, and it cannot win until the gasoline stops. So the work is to find the loudest source first.
This sequencing holds a great deal of hope. If you have cleaned up your plate and your symptoms have barely moved, the food is still doing its part. You may simply not have found your loudest source yet.
A clean diet is the foundation, and on its own it cannot put out a fire that an infection, a moldy bedroom, or years of chronic stress keeps feeding. Your healing has a logical order, and you can work it 1 source at a time.
A food and symptom journal is 1 of the best tools for this. When you track what you eat and how you feel alongside what is happening in your life, patterns appear that are invisible day to day: the flare that follows a weekend in a damp cabin, the fatigue after certain foods, the ache that rises in the high-stress weeks.
These are the clues I look for with each source:
How we lived in our 20's and our 30's reveals itself in our 40's and our 50's. The late nights. The dieting. The coffee to boost our energy. The rounds of antibiotics. The day-to-day stress we called normal living, because everyone around us was carrying it too. None of that showed up on our labs at 28, because we had a hormone buffer thick enough to absorb it. That buffer is what thins in Midlife.
We do not get to live our 20's over again. Whatever you change from here counts more now than it did at 25.
The arc keeps going. How you treat yourself in your 40's and 50's shapes 60 and beyond, because the inflammation you cool now is inflammation your heart, your brain, and your joints do not have to carry later.
Chronic inflammation sits underneath many of the leading causes of disability and death. A 2019 review in Nature Medicine linked inflammation-related diseases to more than half of all deaths worldwide. Here is where it lands:
Researchers even have a name for the slow rise of inflammation with age: inflammaging. Most of the sources above are things you can change.
The rest of this guide is an inflammation plan. Here it is in 1 place:
If your inflammation runs high right now, build your movement gradually, since a sudden jump into intense training or heavy lifting can flare an inflamed body. 'When Inflammation Is High, Start Low and Build', in 'Aches, Stiffness, Frozen Shoulder, and Elbow Pain: Your Joints and Muscles, and Keeping Your Strength', shows how to keep building strength while the fire cools.
Some of the most useful tools for an inflamed, Autoimmune body are the ones almost no one mentions in a 12-minute appointment. Low dose naltrexone, or LDN, is 1 of them, and it has been part of my own healing.
Naltrexone is approved by the FDA to treat opioid use disorder and alcohol use disorder, at a standard dose of 50 mg. LDN is the same medicine at a tiny fraction of that dose, usually 1.5 to 4.5 mg a day, and at that dose it is used for a different purpose entirely.
That use is off-label, which means a prescriber chooses it for a purpose the FDA has not formally approved. Because no commercial tablet comes in these small doses, LDN is made by a compounding pharmacy.
LDN is promising, well tolerated, and still under study. It is 1 tool, and it works best on top of the foundation: gut healing, an anti-inflammatory plate, steady blood sugar, restored nutrients, and supported adrenals.
This article is a section of The Midlife Bible: The Essential Guide to the Women's Midlife Journey, by Daniela Hess, MSEd. It is the book's own text, so where it says 'this book' or points to another part, that means the Bible. The book has the full chapters, charts, and the Lab Wish List.
Educational content, not medical advice. Please work with your own practitioner before you change a medication or a supplement.
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Chronic inflammation can look like colds that linger for weeks, sinus headaches and migraines, constipation and bloating, hair loss, fatigue and brain fog, allergies that came out of nowhere, joint pain, puffiness, skin flares, and weight that settles around your middle. It can also look like anxiety, low mood, a shorter fuse, and sleep that does not leave you rested. Many Women hear the word inflammation and think, my digestion is fine, so this must not be me. That is how it hides in plain sight.
Many Women have several sources at once, which is why removing just 1 rarely clears it. The ones I see most often are sugar, refined starch, and insulin resistance, belly fat, a leaky gut, foods your immune system has flagged, chronic stress, too little sleep, falling estrogen, alcohol, too little movement and lost muscle, lingering infections, toxins and mold, Autoimmune activity itself, and relationships that do not feel safe.
Dr. Datis Kharrazian, 1 of my teachers, offers a sequencing principle that changed how I work: anti-inflammatory food, habits, and supplements bring limited benefit while a major source of inflammation is still active. It is like pouring cool water on a fire while someone keeps pouring gasoline on the other side. Look for clues. The 3 PM crash points to blood sugar, bloating and new food reactions point to your gut, fewer than 7 hours of sleep points to sleep, and feeling better away from home and worse in 1 particular building points to mold and toxins. A food and symptom journal is 1 of the best tools.
Steady your blood sugar, with total sugar under about 15 grams a day, protein at breakfast, vegetables first, and a walk after meals. Heal your gut with 90 days of the Autoimmune Protocol, and remove your triggers, such as gluten, dairy, and alcohol. Eat wild-caught fish such as salmon and sardines for their omega-3 fats, protect 7 to 9 hours of sleep, build in recovery from stress every single day, and strength train 2 to 3 times a week. Address your hormones and your thyroid with a practitioner, and retest hs-CRP after 12 weeks.
Naltrexone is approved by the FDA to treat opioid use disorder and alcohol use disorder. LDN is the same medicine at a tiny fraction of that dose, used for a different purpose. That use is off-label, which means a prescriber chooses it for a purpose the FDA has not formally approved, and because no commercial tablet comes in these small doses, LDN is made by a compounding pharmacy. It has been part of my own healing. LDN is promising and still under study, it requires a prescription, and whether it fits you is a decision with your prescriber. It works best on top of the foundation: gut healing, an anti-inflammatory plate, steady blood sugar, restored nutrients, and supported adrenals.
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